Because we miss eachother so much and rarely meet up, my buds and I try to get together for an extended weekend every year. This past weekend was Erin and Briony in the lovely Victoria, BC- we were missing Angie, but next time dear sister…
So a recap: I met Briony downtown Vancouver on Friday afternoon and after much hugging we boarded the 257 Horeshoe Bay bus to catch the 5pm ferry. We met a former classmate on the ferry and did much chatting, catching up, me knitting, Briony etching, and reving up excitement for the upcoming days of girli-ness to be had. 6:45 arrive in Nanaimo to a very bright smiling Erin. Can’t stop hugging!!! So Erin has a car for a few months on loan from a friend who took off to India. Very convenient! We hop in and drive south to Victoria. A stop in Duncan for some crazy chinese food that was almost too much and not very chinese… But we ate it anyway- too distracted to care, i imagine.
Arriving in Victoria we check into our hostel and head out on the streets to explore on a very LOUD busy st.paddy’s night. This was the beginning for me of constant waves of dejavu and bizzare brain links to my dad and having been there before with him. This strange intuitiveness lasted all weekend. Except those 4 hours in the tattoo parlor. I never saw that one coming…
Ahh yes, much happened over the 3 days in Vic.
But I digress… Friday night and wanting nothing more powerful than peppermint tea, we found the only non-alcoholic establishment open was 7-11 who charged $1.29 for a tea bag. no water, no cup, just the tea. so we bought 2. and went back to the hostel where they have a large well equipped kitchen perfect for tea drinking sissies like us on St. paddy’s night in Victoria. PERFECT. We were up till 2 am gabbing and then awoke 10am on Saturday for some fun in the city. What a beautiful place- I could see myself moving there in a heartbeat. (I told that to Silvia this morning and she looked a little worried! HA!) Plans for the day? no plans. walk the city and see what we could see… started with Breakfast at Rebar an organic/wholefoods awesome tastey restaraunt. This where the first talks of tattoos began… Although I must insert that we had been talking about this for a couple years now- about what? Matching tattoos. Something to signify and honour our connection with eachother. Cheesey and romantic all at once. Till death do us part… Briony had a printmaking show opening in Langley a few days before- on the postcard was one of her prints. A Death’s Head Hawkmoth. It is stunning. We all agreed it would be perfect. (was there something in the tea that morning?)
So we set off and headed down to the water’s edge where there are many tattoo parlors in very few blocks… a college town, no doubt. So we ended up in a great little place run by vegans, very clean and a great vibe. made a 3:30 appointment for 3 tattoos and headed off for the 2 hours we had before the big event. You know, considering I was about to get a permanant mark put onto my body, I was pretty calm. I wasn’t worried about the pain, or the permanant part. I just can’t explain what I was feeling. Although I must say there are very few things i would get a tattoo for. My girl-friends are one. My brother Dan would be the other. I’ve thought about that a fair amount.
I went first. my lower back. yes it hurt. but not so bad that I couldn’t handle it. feels like a sunburn now.
Then Briony. her forearm. she watched intently the whole event. So amazing.
Then Erin. Her inner upper arm. held my hand and sqeezed through the pain. had to feed her chocolate. so brave.
Freshly tattooed, we found our way to Fennies for drinks and food. We were all in a bit of stunned quiet. Perhaps our bodies were in a bit of shock. We ended up back at the hostel pretty early that night and slept hard until late the next morning. Sunday’s high-light (besides slathering lotion onto our fresh tattoos every 5 hours) was the BUG ZOO!! It was one of the coolest things over the weekend. many stick bugs, spiders, milli and centi pedes, Canada’s largest indoor ant farm… it was just awesome. Erin and I held a tarantula, Briony braved a scorpion. that was a great couple hours. We just shopped for the rest of the day, wandered the city, and ate and hung out, and ended the day in a great carribean restarant across from the hostel. Again with the slathering of lotion all day.
Monday morning came too quick. back to Nanaimo for our last meal together at a 11am pub to catch the 12:30 ferry back to the mainland.
Best memories:
- The first moment of seeing Briony and knowing that it was starting then… (she was wandering lost across the street and i spotted her from a distance)
- The first moment of seeing Erin and starting to laugh and cry all at once right there…
- Driving into Victoria and feeling that strange feeling- dejavu? past life? Loving it and wanting more.
- Eating alot of really good food.
- Sitting watching Erin and Briony talk to eachother- feeling the difference and knowing that the relationship they share is different than the one i share with each of them… and likewise. One thing i love about this circle, and am reminded every time we are together.
- That drum group on the street… It sparked a really intimate moment between us.
- How full I feel right now. I love these two women so much.
Go see the photos. (clicking on a photo will take you to Flickr to view the whole set)
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